Showing posts with label real life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label real life. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Four Kids 2 and Under

It's my last chance to say that. Unless, of course, we have another child within the next two years.  ;)

The past nine months have been quite a journey in raising three infants and a toddler. I think back upon what Jackson was like nine months ago and realize how far we've come. Adjusting to life with three newborns was a hell of a learning curve for all of us. In those early weeks it seemed as though Jack spent more time in time-out than not. The babies cried more often than not. Our bad days outnumbered our good days for the first few months. We all had to grow up in aspects that none of us were quite ready for.

Now that my first baby is about to turn three, I'm amazed at what an outstanding big brother and little boy he has become. I'm equally amazed at how much the triplets have grown. I can't adequately express what the past nine months have been like.  I suspect I'll be hard-pressed to find another time in my life that is more challenging and fulfilling as this.

A snapshot of Jackson's final day as a 2 year old

Thursday, March 6, 2014

Season of Lent: I'm Not Strong Enough

The first day of Lent left me feeling utterly defeated with entirely too much to process.  I've listened to this song at least a dozen times today.


After a bit of self reflection, my goal during this season of Lent is to admit that I cannot do it all and surrender my weaknesses to God.  I'm not entirely sure what that is going to look like, but that's where I'm going to start.

Thursday, January 16, 2014

Yeah...THAT really happened.

Over this past week there have been several incidents where I've done a double take or thought to myself, "Is this really happening?"  Some were good moments; others were bad.  Either way, there's never a dull moment with these kids.

The week began with a few days of sunny, 60° weather, which meant we had to spend as much time outside as possible.  We went to the park and attempted a walk around the neighborhood.  Neither outing went according to plan. 

On Monday I planned a picnic lunch at the park where we could also feed the birds.  Winter is clearly the best time to go as there were hundreds of ducks, swans, geese, and other birds swarming us.


We fed the birds, but our outdoor lunch was postponed as soon as Jackson declared, "I need to poop!"  Ah, the joys of potty training.  Jackson hasn't had any accidents in over a week, but when he feels the urge to go, we've got just a few minutes to find a potty.  Luckily, I had thought ahead and brought the little potty with us since I knew there weren't easily accessible restrooms at this particular park.  We spent over ten minutes sitting in the van while Jackson used the bathroom.  By the time he was finished I had buckled all the babies in their car seats so we just ended up eating in the smelly van.


Tuesday was another day of warmer weather.  Jackson wanted to go for a walk after we picked him up from preschool.  I loaded up in the wagon and strolled away, just like I've done dozens of times before.  Two blocks from our house, I heard a funny sound and saw Amelia suddenly flop down in the wagon.  Somehow the wheel completely fell off.  I knew how to fix it, but it required me to turn the wagon over on its side.  I couldn't very well lay the babies on the sidewalk, so I trudged forward.  Only, the rod came out and the other wheel was no longer in the correct spot.  I tried to lift the wagon like a wheelbarrow to push it back home, but the babies kept sliding with the slightest angle.  The only way to safely get home was to either crawl on my knees while holding the corner of the wagon upright or to hold up the corner with my back bent completely and shuffle.  I alternated between the two.  I don't know how many times I stopped or how long it took, but we got home eventually.  All five of us were crying by the time we entered the garage.

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On a lighter note (pun intended), I've been making conscious efforts to eat better.  For dinner last night we had brown rice pasta with a homemade lentil tomato sauce and a spinach cucumber salad.  Even while cooking it, I questioned if I really wanted to eat it.  Turns out, it was fairly tasty.

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Since the babies have been wearing footy pajamas, I hadn't really noticed how severe Maddie's eczema had gotten until bath night.  We've been slathering her up in steroid cream and lotion.  My poor girl!

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Another double take was seeing both of my sweet girls rocking it during tummy time.  Of course, Amelia has been doing this for many weeks.  Maddie, on the other hand, has struggled to lift her head. 

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The final "What am I doing?" moment was when I decided to carry the 84 pound box up the stairs and assemble our new exercise spin bike.  There were some foul words said and I may or may not have taken my skirt off in the process, but we have a newly assembled bicycle upstairs thanks to Jackson and myself. Jackson was quite the cheerleader, shouting, "You've got it, Mommy.  Good job!"  He also got his toolbox and helped me.



Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Keepin' It Real

This post is dedicated to those who think I live in a world of rainbows and sunshine.

This is a very typical scene that happens multiple times a day at our house: 


Thankfully, it only takes a few minutes to get everything under control again.  But those few minutes sometimes feel like eternity.

Just keepin' it real, friends!

Saturday, November 16, 2013

How to Create Christmas Cards

Much like everything else I do, a simple photo idea turned into a tedious, semi-stressful process.  The end result was unexpected but successful.  Here are the steps I followed:

1. Surf the web for hours for a cute Christmas photo idea that includes triplets and a toddler.  Accept limitations that babies can't sit unassisted and Maddie still doesn't lift her upper body while on the floor.

2. Fall in love with this picture: 


3. Find a box that fits all three babies snuggly enough to keep them upright and sturdy enough that it doesn't fall over.


4. Wrap box in festive wrapping paper after everyone goes to bed.


5. Realize the wrapping paper is sideways.  Curse while wrapping it again.  Line the inside and all edges with clear packing tape to avoid tears.


6. Create a lid using scraps of cardboard; then wrap lid.


7. Use Target gift card to buy adorable, coordinating Christmas pajamas.


8. Schedule an appointment at a portrait studio.  Wait in crowded studio and listen to sales pitches for ridiculously expensive packages.

9. Like, but not love, portrait studio pictures.  Pay $18 for $144 worth of unimpressive prints using promotion. 

10. Stubbornly decide to conduct personal photo shoot in bedroom.

11. Take a few cute pictures. 


12. Keep photographing to the point of pissing everyone off (babies, toddler, husband, and self). 


13. Strangely like the "bad" picture the best.  Edit photo and add funny caption.


14. Upload photo to Walgreens.  Create and order 20 Christmas cards for $12 using promotional code.   Include portrait studio pictures in envelope for those who prefer more traditional pictures.

Thursday, October 24, 2013

Deafening Diva


Dear God,

Grant me the patience to continuously comfort this child.


Amen.